1. Sleep patterns are abnormal.

This can manifest in two polar opposite extremes. Some of us lie awake, staring at the ceiling, wondering if we're insomniacs. Others can't seem to pull themselves out of bed with any semblance of motivation. The bottom line, our sleep patterns can be very telling.

2. Irritability isn't lifting.

Occasional feelings of irritability are absolutely normal. So shake the dust off and move on, right? But what about when we can't shed that feeling of constant agitation or lack of tolerance for even the smallest inconvenience?

3. Recklessness is on the rise.

Maybe you've given yourself a shock recently, not even recognizing your own rash behavior. This often happens after extended periods of isolation as we seek to escape our prison of loneliness. Reckless behavior spikes our endorphins and serotonin levels, making us "feel alive" again. So don't ignore personal trends toward road rage, excessive alcohol consumption, or even gambling. This may be a sign that isolation's wreaking havoc on your life.

4. Hobbies aren't enjoyable anymore.

There's a phenomenon called "anhedonia" that's linked directly to isolated and depressive emotions. Maybe you once enjoyed playing music, painting, tennis, or cooking, but nothing seems interesting anymore. These could be signs that isolation and its "cousin" depression are taking up the mental space once occupied by a desire for discovery.

5. Social anxiety grips you.

Loneliness begets loneliness. That means if you're feeling lonely, the last thing you'll want to do is reach out, and there's good science behind this. In 2010, a study conducted by the US National Library of Medicine found that people experiencing isolation, loneliness and even depression feel less satisfaction with day-to-day interactions.

So hold up the mirror for a moment and ask, "Do any of these signs reflect the way I've been feeling?"

If so, I want to make a heartfelt plea. Don't stay there!

Listen, I'm not pretending the issues are simple. I'm just admitting that I can't carry this alone and neither can you.

I'm also suggesting that the first step toward a solution doesn't have to be overwhelming.

Over the past decade, my clinics have added every holistic health service imaginable—from chiropractic care to acupuncture, massage, and nutrition...

But it's not enough.

There's one ingredient that cannot be missing if we're going to experience complete wellbeing.

We must be connected in community if we're going to thrive!


So I'm making an appeal to my Tallahassee community...

We cannot allow the true pandemic to spread any longer—not when we (together) hold the cure!

But where do we begin?

It begins with an invitation to be known—to come out of isolation and touch someone else's life through the healing touch of empathy and the power of our authentic story.

Here's our first step...

What would happen if each of us committed to reaching out to one local contact who might be lonely each day?

(Hint: Don't assume your "strong" friends are just "okay" either.)

Don't overcomplicate it! Just send them a "friend check" text. Ask them how they're (really) doing. Let them know you were thinking of them and ask "What did you do today?"

Something will begin to shift! I know it!

But let's take a second simple step...

Invite just one of those people out for coffee or lunch each week of that month.

Don't try to fix them. Just ask a good question. Draw their story out of them and listen with interest and empathy.

We are more "in this together" than we know! So reach out. Ask, listen, and let yourself be known.

And one third and final step you can take right now…

I invite you to go first—lead the way—start the conversation by giving others “permission” to be themselves. Here’s how…

Connecting People

1. Share a single image and caption that tells part of your story you wish others knew about you.

Avoid the temptation to speak down or self-deprecate. Instead, let’s be a vulnerable example—extending an invitation to be seen, heard, and known. 

2. Use Tallahassee as your post location.

We want to have a positive impact on as many of our Tallahassee neighbors as possible!

3. Tag a local friend whose story you’d love to hear.

 Invite them to step out and be known!

4 - Finally, add the simple hashtag #tellyourstorytally

and let’s show our city what the power of community can look like by linking our stories together. 

I can’t wait to see your stories. I can’t wait to know you and be known by you. I can’t wait to see what my “dream come true” looks like—a transformed city where every man, woman, and child in Tallahassee is empowered to live into their full God-given potential.

Ready? I’ll go first!

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